Taking the time to get to know your new puppy is essential to having a strong bond with them when they are older. Here are a few easy ways to bond with your new puppy.
Getting a dog should be a well-planned decision and thought of as a lifelong commitment. For the greatest chance for success, put forth the effort to find the best match for you and your family.
Being a responsible dog owner is being an informed, realistic dog owner. Think also about what life will be like after you get a dog.
Research and educate yourself about proper dog ownership, nutrition, health and training. Understand the time, energy and money that may be needed to give you and your dog the optimal chance for your relationship to thrive.
Consider your lifestyle and how your dog or puppy will fit in with it, and maybe how certain breeds may react to it.
For example, if you are looking for a dog to accompany you on hikes, runs or long walks, a short-legged dog may not be the wisest choice. If you lead a sedentary lifestyle, you may not want a high-energy dog that requires a lot of exercise. And if you live in an apartment, keep in mind your property manager may impose size or breed restrictions.

Purebred dogs
Choosing a breed
The selective breeding of dogs with certain traits developed breeds with predictable physical characteristics, behavior and personality.
Predictability of those traits is a major advantage of getting a purebred dog over a mixed-breed puppy or older dog.
There are 198 dog breeds recognized by the American Kennel Club. You can research breeds on AKC’s website or a particular breed’s national club website to learn about their history, purpose and disposition, and find responsible breeders with dogs up for adoption.
Responsible breeders
Ideally, responsible purebred dog breeders are members of a national club, educated and accountable on their breed’s health status and adherent to the club’s recommended health tests. They can be recognized as AKC “Breeders of Merit” for their commitment to the breed.
They will ask about your lifestyle, living conditions and expectations, but may not have a dog for you at that moment, which can signify that they breed very selectively for quality and not quantity. You could be put on a waiting list or referred to another responsible breeder.
Rescue dogs
The right questions
If you prefer to rescue a dog from a shelter, you still need to be honest with the shelter staff about you and your family’s lifestyle, living conditions, energy levels and expectations. Responsible shelters should be asking you those questions.
A good shelter also wants to get the best possible match for their dogs. If they are not asking you about your lifestyle, living conditions and personality expectations, or giving you inaccurate information, be wary.
This is especially important when getting a young mixed-breed puppy or an older dog. It’s important to understand why the dog ended up in the shelter so that you can make an informed decision on if that dog is for you, and if necessary, take steps to resolve any problems the dog may have had.
Breed rescue
If you have a connection with a particular breed but would still like to rescue a dog, most national breed clubs have rescue groups that are notified if a dog of that breed is coming into a shelter.
With funds donated by that breed’s club, members volunteer to fetch that dog from the shelter and place it in a foster home.
An example of getting a good match from a responsible breeder as well as shelter is President Joe Biden and his family’s two German shepherds: 12-year-old Champ came from a responsible breeder, and 3-year-old Major was adopted from a rescue organization in 2018.
The bottom line
The best chance for a successful match is finding a dog or puppy that will fit in with your lifestyle, activity level and living conditions. Do your research and make informed decisions for this lifetime commitment.
If the match is not good, it can lead to unfortunate circumstances for both dog and owner.
In those scenarios, it’s best if the dog can be returned to its responsible breeder. In the worst case, the dog will be relinquished to a shelter, where it may not survive.
25 adorable dog photos for National Puppy Day
Dachshund puppy

Samira, an 8-week-old Dachshund puppy, carries her water dish on June 18, 2018, in Wilmington, Mass. (AP Photo/Elise Amendola)
New Zealand tiny puppy

Six-month-old Maltese pup Scooter sits dwarfed by a tea cup as owner Cheryl McKnight admires her tiny ball of fluff in Gisborne, New Zealand, on July 14, 2009. (AP Photo/Rebecca Grunwell)
Puppies

Samira, left, and Scarlett, 8-week-old Dachshund puppies, play in the grass June 18, 2018, in Wilmington, Mass. (AP Photo/Elise Amendola)
Miniature Schnauzer

A miniature schnauzer puppy is shown Feb. 18, 2001, in Spring, Texas. (AP Photo/David J. Phillip)
Boy and puppy

Will Farkas embraces a puppy during the first morning of a camp for children whose lives have been touched by cancer in South Russell, Ohio, on Aug. 1, 2005. Each of the 12 campers was given a puppy to take care of and socialize with during the week-long camp. (AP Photo/Amy Sancetta)
Golden retriever puppies

A litter of seven golden retriever puppies trots across the lawn at Mountain View Kennels in Williamsburg, Pa., on Nov. 2, 2005. (AP Photo/Carolyn Kaster)
Tiny puppy

Beyonce, left, a Dachsund puppy vying for the title of World's Smallest Dog, is held with her mom Casey, a mixed Dachshund and Chihuahua, on March 28, 2012, in New York. Animal rescuers in Northern California say Beyonce was so small at birth that she could fit into a spoon. (AP Photo/Bebeto Matthews)
Puppy Bowl

Puppies play during Animal Planet's Puppy Bowl in Silver Spring, Md. (AP Photo/Stephen J Boitano.)
Iraq puppy

Ratchet, a puppy from Iraq who was rescued by a soldier from Minnesota, rests after arriving at Dulles International Airport in Chantilly, Va., on Oct. 20, 2008. The dog from Iraq arrived after a lengthy effort to reunite the pooch with the U.S. soldier who adopted him. (AP Photo/Jacquelyn Martin)
Puppies

Puppies Apple, left, and Curry tussle with a chew toy as they romp at ASPCA headquarters in New York on April 4, 2019. (AP Photo/Mark Lennihan)
Five Legged Puppy

In this photo taken on July 16, 2009, Lily, a Chihuahua terrier mix with five legs, licks a bowl in Charlotte, N.C. (AP Photo/The Charlotte Observer, Jeff Siner)
Puppy ride

Draco, a golden retriever puppy, enjoys a ride on the shoulder of owner Cyrus Scribner of Middlesex, Vt., on Sept. 30, 2010. (AP Photo/Toby Talbot)
Guess

An animal control officer holds a puppy named Guess in Minneapolis on Feb. 18, 2011. (AP Photo/Jim Mone)
Labrador retriever

Harbor, an 8-week-old Labrador retriever, takes a nap at the American Kennel Club headquarters in New York on March 28, 2018. (AP Photo/Mary Altaffer, File)
French bulldog

Pua, a 5-month-old French bulldog, poses for photographers at the American Kennel Club headquarters in New York on March 28, 2018. (AP Photo/Mary Altaffer, File)
Labrador puppies

Window shoppers look at a pair of Labrador puppies for sale at the Westside Pavilion Shopping Center in Los Angeles on Oct. 4, 2010. (AP Photo/Damian Dovarganes, file)
Chocolate lab puppy

A chocolate lab puppy looks at the camera in New Hampshire in this Jan. 8, 2019, photo. (AP Photo/Elise Amendola)
Puppy

In this Jan. 8, 2019, photo, inmate Jonathan Ladson cuddles with a chocolate lab puppy at Merrimack County Jail in Boscawen, N.H. The New Hampshire jail is the first in the state to partner prisoners with the "Hero Pups" program to foster and train puppies with the goal of placing them with military veterans and first responders in need of support dogs. (AP Photo/Elise Amendola)
Golden retriever puppies

Officers introduce a litter of golden retriever puppies to be trained as police dogs during a skills presentation of the K-9 unit in La Paz, Bolivia, on April 5, 2019. (AP Photo/Juan Karita)
Coonhound puppy

Milo, a coonhound puppy born with "upside down paws," chews on a treat at his home at the Oliver and Friends Farm Rescue and Sanctuary in Luther, Okla., on Feb. 14, 2019. Milo was born with a congenital dislocation of both elbows that left his paws turned upside down. The condition was treated with surgery. (AP Photo/Sue Ogrocki)
Puppy

A puppy is on display at a pet store in Columbia, Md., on Aug. 26, 2019. (AP Photo/Jose Luis Magana)
Puppies

Puppies play in a cage at a pet store in Columbia, Md., on Aug. 26, 2019. (AP Photo/Jose Luis Magana, File)
Shetland sheepdog

Linda Eroh holds Sammy, a 12-year-old Shetland sheepdog, on Oct. 9, 2008, at her Douglassville, Pa., home. Eroh rescued Sammy from a puppy mill. (AP Photo/Carolyn Kaster)
Iraq puppy

Ratchet, a puppy from Iraq who was rescued by a soldier from Minnesota, rests on arrival at Dulles International Airport in Chantilly, Va., on Oct. 20, 2008. The dog from Iraq has arrived after a lengthy effort to reunite the pooch with the U.S. soldier who adopted him. (AP Photo/Jacquelyn Martin)
Petula

Petula, a rescued pug, walks around during a rally on the front steps of the Statehouse in Indianapolis on April 23, 2009. A group of dog lovers called on lawmakers to regulate large-scale dog breeding operations in Indiana. (AP Photo/Darron Cummings)